Plan a date
+50 XP+20 gems
Why this matters
Why bother?
Anticipation matters as much as the date itself — research shows planned activities deliver happiness twice (planning + experiencing).
How often
Weekly planning, monthly bigger outing — whatever fits your life.
Best time: Sunday planning coffee — low drama, high clarity.
Pro tip
Trade off who plans. Removes the 'you never plan anything' loop and surprises both of you.
Common mistake
Vague 'we should do something' with no calendar entry — that's not a plan.
What happens if you skip
Relationship runs on autopilot; novelty flatlines.
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